There are nine days left in the month of change, but I don’t know what has changed other than my age and my roommate.
I’m so clueless as to what is going on. Perhaps I like it that way. I feel the Lord calling me to Wilmington, NC. That feels right and makes sense. Could only 9 1/2 months remain here?
I feel I have no control over my life. I’m just some leaf in the wind. If so, why am I receiving such a life? I’m not worthy of it. It is the thing I enjoy, the thing I fear, and who I am. Was I created to share? Am I an apostle who has no home?
I don’t want to know the answers God. Honest, I’m afraid of them. I just want to move forward, knowing one thing: that you will never let me go. I’d rather have your storm, than my peace.
It doesn’t have to make sense to me. Only to you.
I don’t need any miracles. I don’t need any signs or wonders. I see you every time I open my eyes. I just need you to life my life for me while I love you. I don’t have the strength to do both.
I feel haunted by every moment. Memories of these days here in Virginia Beach have already begun to linger in my mind and heart. It seems I live every moment knowing it will never be again. I do believe that true love lasts forever. Veronica, Jeni, Emily, Sarah, these loves did not last forever. Who they are now is not the person I once knew. I’m sure I too have changed.
The summer is slowly closing, and I wish I could be back in the arms of Mary. I wish I could sit above the city of dreams and overlook L.A. I wish I could wake up once more under the thin slice of the Vermont moon.
I am missing days I haven’t even entered.
Oh to be 22 again. To have just returned from Africa, to be working with the beautiful Dawn, to be sitting in class talking about movies, to be directing fifteen teens in a Christmas show.
I visited eleven new states while I was 22.
I miss the wife I have yet to meet. Forgive me for looking for you in others’ hearts.
I want to sleep in the arms of the one who knows me.
Mary Jo and her guy Rob, plus Stephen, took me out to eat for my birthday. All the beautiful waitresses sang happy birthday to me.
Lindy called me at midnight to wish me a happy birthday. And Nate called me as well. He is in high school now.
I worked at the bookstore all day on Tuesday. It was the best day! They had a cake and everything for me.
Sterling’s family had me over for dinner that night and Kimberly came over as well. We all met up with other folks from the youth group to go pick David up from the airport. He has been in Bogota.
I met with Lorene since she is going to be the chair for my thesis film I’m doing. I’ve titled it DANG!. I have to incorporate my own production company to produce it properly and legally. I bought a book on how to do that last night. This is kind of crazy.
I can feel in the air that autumn is on its way. This 23rd year of my life is going to be something else. My movie will take up most of it, plus a full year of classes, not to mention teaching at the church on Wednesday nights. I’ll also be working on a feature length script for my story structure class. The summer is almost over.
On Monday I have an audition for a CBN/700 Club feature story. Someone told the director that I look exactly like this real life murderer, so I’ve been asked to read for the part. Should be fun!
I spent most of last week working at the bookstore. We have some new people working there, and Jenny’s last day was Wednesday. I’m thankful for that job. It is relaxing. I can be myself. I spend most of the day laughing.
I talked to Vince last week. He told me that his new girlfriend Natalie stays with him at this Newland Land Harbor place and they sleep in the same bed, but he assures me they aren’t having sex. I don’t know what he is thinking.
Thursday night I went out with Marion and Rebekah from church, I took them to see Runaway Bride. Friday was our bookstore beach day. And on Saturday I went to Justin’s birthday party after work. He turned 15. Brandon spent the night and the next day after church we hung out at the beach with Melissa and Amanda, they are Sterling and Christin’s cousins. They’re parents are going through a divorce, so I figured I’d show up more often to spend time with the girls as they go through this difficult time. They are 14 and 11. I’m not sure what I can do, but I’m pretty good at smiling, laughing and crying, and all three of those are worth sharing.
Lindy has been on my mind a lot. Perhaps it is just that Allen and Jessica, and Dan and Abigail, and Curtis and Meagan will probably all get married next summer.
You know, maybe the joy of all this is in its simplicity. To simply live and not know what is going on. To now worry about figuring it out because Jesus has already figured it out for us. I don’t need to know what is going on, but just lean on loving those around me.
My mom called this morning to wish me a happy birthday. She forgot last year and tried so hard to this year that she called me a day early. Ha!
Time sure is moving itself along, isn’t it?
Church was great yesterday. I so adore Pastor Trueblood’s sermons. He is gifted and anointed. Brandon and Jason hung out with me before we went to the final Master’s Commission service. It was great to see everyone. God definitely showed up at that service. What a joy it is to know the Lord.
It was so nice to see Mary. She came with a friend sho was staying at the beach. So, after the service, we went to our spot over at Fort Henry. That wonderful little overlook with a lighthouse on one side and a sparkling bridge on the other.
We stayed there for about an hour and simply held each other. Through what Mary shared, God has used me to bring an amazing amount of healing to her heart and mind. Thank you for using me God. She wrote me a letter that contained quotes from other authors:
“To be touched tells man that he is loved. To touch tells man that he is a lover. Touching is therefore being.”
Thank you Lord for my ability to touch others.
Well… I am in Freeport, Maine.
Wednesday morning I left Banner Elk to drive through Tennessee, Virginia, and West Virginia to get to Mount Airy, MD. I stayed with Lindy’s parents. Her house is so neat. She is from classic, small town America. Her parents and I had some pasta and then walked around downtown. I wish she could have been with me.
I woke up yesterday morning and drove through Pennsylvania and New York to get to Connecticut, where I took a scenic route, and then drove through Rhode Island and downtown Boston, Massachusetts. Boston was under some major construction and the traffic was horrible, so I got out of there as fast as possible, drove through a small corner of New Hampshire, and now I’m in Freeport, Maine, just outside of Portland.
I couldn’t find a campground and it was pouring outside, so I got a hotel room that cost me over $70. It is really kind of scary being way up here all alone. It didn’t hit me until it got dark. Portland seems interesting, but I’ve been listening to the radio and they are talking about Y2K, which sounds terrifying.
Well, I’m going to leave this shoreline and drive up to the mountains.
Yesterday was Lindy’s birthday. We took her out to eat and to see Runaway Bride. It was a fantastic time. She’s 22. We are only the same age together for two weeks every year.
I got to see Jeni last night. We talked and caught up. She is so busy with work and with marriage that she realize her relationship with the Lord feels very distant. Again, it made me thankful that God was the only one on my heart at the moment.
In a little while I will leave from here and head north. The Lord is my shepherd. He is my guide. My goal is to simply go away with him and see is creation.
Deep Creek last weekend brought bittersweet feelings. I think I would like to go much less often and keep it a part of my childhood. I did stand on my ledge and it was wonderful to pray there.
Talking to everyone about marriage is crazy. Allen and Jessica really feel right for each other. I’m excited for them. Of course Dan and Abigail will probably get married next year as well.
God is keeping me young at this stage of life. So, I leave my old college town now and prepare for the road ahead. I am in your hands Father. Protect me, guide me, love me.