I’m sitting on a slanted picnic table in a park near the Library and Community Center of Sterling, Virginia. I left at 7:30 this morning to drive up here, because someone associated with a sister company of Acoustic Works is going to train me on Dreamweaver.
My meeting isn’t until 1:00 p.m., but I left early just to spend some time alone in a new town. Three kids are playing loudly on the playground near me. I’m glad they are happy.
I received Dan and Abigail’s wedding invitation in the mail. It makes me both happy and sad. Only Vince and I have yet to get married, and he is in Bolivia.
After Dan and Abigail’s wedding, I wonder if I should stop visiting Banner Elk. I can so easily get stuck in the past. It may be better for me to not see that land for a while.
. . .
I’ve sat here in silence for a while now. I fear I have a broken heart. I feel Jeni, Sarah, Emily, and Marie have each broken it in their own slight way. But most of all, I feel I have broken it as well.
An older woman just brought two little blonde girls down to the playground, but then she turned around and walked away after she saw three Black kids playing on it. And now the two white girls are sad and asking a bunch of questions. They don’t understand why they can’t play.
Such a sight makes me so thankful I grew up with Marcus, Danny, and Peter. And that I even had a Black youth pastor for a while.
Life seems to get harder as I grow older. As a child, I would have never noticed the subtle racism I just experienced.
Jesus, you are my savior. Am I living fully in your salvation? Am I accepting all your mercy and forgiveness? All I want is you.
When it comes down to it, I just want that treehouse covered in snow with the Braveheart soundtrack in my ear. I want you all around me like that.
Can I have that everyday?
I just realized this is my second time in Sterling, VA. The first time was with Rachel’s mom when she brought me up to Chrysalis in 1997. In fact, that was exactly three years ago, for I remember it was in early August.
Is there any love left in me?
It feels like I’m losing all my friends. I can never have Banner Elk and Lees-McRae again, so I should stop looking and waiting for it.
Do you still have a plan for me God?
Thank you for the leaf that just floated down and sat next to me. I want more quiet moments alone with you.
Please don’t send me a girl if she’ll only distract me from you, or if I’ll distract her from you as well. Too many hearts have been bruised. I want to give all of my heart to you.