My final day is here.
I talked to Sarah last night. We are to see each other tonight to say goodbye. She admitted the problem was not me, that I had everything figured out and in order. She simply said she can’t handle her own self. She doesn’t see it now, but who can handle themselves if Jesus isn’t there? She doesn’t tell me she loves me any more. She just sees me going away from her.
Tonight will be a night to remember.
It has been seven months since Sarah and I began.
Seven is God’s number of completion.
Things are completed.
The end is here.
God did this. He used me.
Praise the Lord!
I have a dream. Something I want in this life. I call it “three in one.”
Jesus, my girl, and me.
I told Sarah about it. I wanted us to have that. But we never did. She told me she wasn’t ready to talk about her spirit, and she made me believe that her relationship with God was too personal to share, so I waited.
I have waited seven months.
Now that I am leaving, she has confessed to me that she never talked to me about her faith because she was afraid I wouldn’t want to be with her if I knew what she believed. She called herself a bitch, since she knew the most important part of my life, yet she decided to live a silent lie about it.
It felt good for her to finally talk. We talked so much more, but I will not give every detail here. I love her still and I have forgiven her. I let her know that I was here if she ever needed to talk about what she believes.
She simply doubts, and that is often a great place to be in, for it leads to a deeper faith.
We plan to see each other on Friday and then that will be it.
It’s officially the first day of summer!
Friday night I went to Asheboro and ran into Wynne and Grant from high school. We went to see X-Files together. It was nice to be near them. I rode around in the back of Grant’s truck for a bit as he cruised downtown. It was a nice moment of wind and freedom.
On Saturday I spent the day with Sarah at Pilot Mountain on the other side of Winston-Salem. What a magical place. We saw Hope Floats that evening and ate dinner with her dad. We had some difficult hikes during our hike. I’m glad I’m leaving. Sarah and I feel a bit stuck. I’m sure if I were three years younger, our relationship would play out differently. I love her, but it is closing time for us now. I need to go away and have time with God.
Mom and Henry have given me a car. It is a 1989 Dodge Aires, something Henry used to drive.
I have five full days left here. I am in the process of registering for my fall graduate classes. All of that will begin in about two months, and one of those months will be spent in Africa.
I’m yours God.
I turn 22 in two months.
The final pages of this Book of Days seem to be falling out. I hope this journal stands the test of time and still has all it’s pages whenever I or someone else reads it.
I haven’t written since Saturday. The weekend didn’t turn out that great, but all is well. Everyone seemed to understand while the visit was difficult for me. I did get to see Sarah a little bit, but not much. Nevertheless, I am home. This place is home for ten more days.
When Lindy dropped me off on Sunday there was a strange car in the driveway. I walked into the house and there stood a beautiful and curvy dark-haired girl. She was looking at me. I had never seen her before.
It turns out, she and her mom were looking at buying our house, or possibly renting it. The girl is only 15, but she looks 18 or 20. Her name is Shana and we talked the whole afternoon. She’s pretty neat; she said she would call me.
Emily have talked an average of twice a week recently and I’ve been hanging out with Marcus and Peter quite a bit. These days have been nice.
I bought Sarah a small Bible and had her name engraved on it. I wrote a special goodbye in it and will give it to her on the last night I see her before I leave: June 26, 1998. What a night that will be! Will that be the end or just the beginning?
“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”
“Soon it will be time to go out to the places I will be from.”
I’ve learned a hard lesson these past few weeks: all these people and places that I’ve loved for so long….none of them are really mine.
Things aren’t good. I don’t feel happy. I came to visit this place and it’s people. They tell me they love me, but in reality my time here is over. I am a “has been.” This place is different now, for it seems Allen and Vince drink way too often, and even once Sarah returned to this land I felt a distance from her that I felt during the semester.
We talked a little last night, and I don’t think I’ll see her much this weekend. This land is still new to her, she wants to visit with her friends who have stayed up here for Summer Theater, and I don’t want to compete for her time or attention.
I’m pretty miserable, for I no longer have my own room or place to go. Lindy wants to stay up here longer and doesn’t want to take me back home now. I’m not sure if Sarah or Jessi do either. I feel like a burden, like extra baggage.
I’m staying over at Charlie’s. The guys know I’m here, but they already made plans for the weekend and aren’t changing them.
I simply shouldn’t have come.
May 10, 1998 was a wonderful ending. Now I fear this weekend will be all I see when I remember this place. If this is how it will be from here on out, I don’t want to visit this place again.
I’d rather it live in on my memory…in my dreams.
After church on Sunday I went to visit Jenna and Tenielle. Jenna was at home, but Tenielle was at work. Jenna was still beautiful and very nice to me. Tenielle was rude and kept saying I never called or wrote to her.
“I’m here now,” I said, but she didn’t care. I’ll try to see them again at least once before I leave.
I talked to Cheryl for a decent amount of time at church on Sunday night. She is doing really well, and I’m super glad to see that. However she said that Ryan and Amy weren’t doing really well spiritually.
Peter came over yesterday. We played Nintendo, just like the good old days. Sarah called that even saying that Jessi was going to come see her and they were driving up to the mountains to visit, which is exactly what I am doing with Lindy (as far as I know).
Marcus came to visit last night and stayed until midnight. Right after he left, Emily called and we talked for exactly four hours straight. Both of us laughed, and both of us cried. We complemented each other. She was so good to me. I talked to her about Sarah and she talked to me about Brandon and how much she was hurting. I tried to explain to her how I was trying to handle Sarah and I since I was leaving. I told her how honest I was with her.
Emily said I was doing everything right. She said she could just go on with her life, just knowing that I was alive. She says I do so much for her, but all I do is exist. I just exist, but that is all that she wants. She only wants me to alive, healthy, and happy. Is that the truest kind of love?
As I was talking to Emily, I accidentally called her Sarah. Oops. It seems Emily and I have a perfect relationship. We stand in awe of how amazing it is.
Thank you God.
Why did you give me so many amazing relationships?
To me it is still Saturday. Today was supposed to be the day Sarah and I went to Carowinds to see Rebecca St. James and Cindy Morgan in concert, but Sarah got really sick with Strep Throat on Thursday. I went to see her on Friday and spent nearly every second with her all weekend until just now. We snuggled most of Friday; she would fall in and out of sleep and I would just be next to her and tickle her back.
We went to see The Truman Show today after she started feeling a bit better. What a brilliant movie!
Mason was in Greensboro today, so he stopped to visit us at Sarah’s house. It was nice to see him. He had a girl with him; someone he has been seeing from Tweetsie Railroad. The four of us went out to eat together.
Sarah and I had a difficult time when it came time for me to leave. We have only 20 days left. Then I will leave and neither of us knows what will happen.