A Sunday afternoon. Amy Grant is playing on my new stereo. It is a warm day. God is at work as usual. Eddie and Natalie, two Performing Arts students, whom I thought were beyond reach, are now coming to church on a regular basis. Two new Freshmen named Justin and Sarah have started coming as well.
A girl accepted the Lord and was baptized this morning in the river behind the church. I watched the baptism with little Hannah. She’s the sweetest little friend. Jessica stood nearby. She stood beautifully in her hiking boots and autumn outfit, her dark hair swirling down her back like million roller coasters. She stood just high enough to peer over the chicken-wire fence, which protected the children from falling down the bluff to the river below. And Shawna was with us today. She showed us pictures of her backyard in New Mexico. Amazing!
I think things are getting back to normal for Abigail and I. At least I hope so.
I went to visit Tracey the other night. She was in her bathrobe getting ready for bed. We talked a little and she said that she didn’t see me around as much any more.
“Well,” I said, “That’s why I came down to see you.”
So weird to see her in that room without Jeni.
I called Jeni on her 21st birthday. She said is was great to hear my voice. She told me that Tracey, Ann-Marie, and Abigail all thought Sherlive and I were dating. I told her that I did want that at one time, but instead Sherlive is my dear friend, who really seems to understand the way I see the world, and that in and of itself is a treasure.
Emily and I haven’t written or communicated since that time we shared the same time and place under the boardwalk in May.
Marisa and I still write though. We also email each other. I wonder if email will take over and keep people from writing handwritten letters. I hope not. Emily’s letters wouldn’t have changed my life if they were just typed letters on a screen. I saw love in her handwriting. Marisa and I actually just got off the phone. We laughed back and forth. She is so funny. She says she’s coming up in three weeks. I told her so many little details about my life recently. Things I haven’t even shared with the guys. I do miss her so much. It’s so weird how this rebellious little 15-year-old brat turned out to be the sweetest girl in the world to me. I told her when she arrived that I would hug her and never let go.
She screamed “Yes!”
A bunch of performing arts students are saying that Lindy and I would make a cute couple, but I’m actually starting to wonder if Lees-McRae holds the one for me. It feels as though Lees-McRae is simply preparing me for the one God has for me. But, to be fair, I guess everything that happens in my life from this point on will have happened because of Lees-McRae.
I miss Jonathan. I miss Marcus, Danny, and Peter. I miss Ryan, Amy, Christi, Cheryl, Jenna, and Tenielle. I miss Veronica, her family and all the families from Sanford. I miss my family, Nate, Mom, Henry, and Kevin. I miss Alison’s smiles and Renee’s eyes. I miss Mike’s laughter and Wynne, Grant, and Mark. I miss Tim. I miss Syndi. I miss Pastor Steve and Shurby and Jason. I miss my old room on the 2nd floor of McAlister. I miss the railroad tracks. I miss Tony and Lisa, Dana and Bradley, Lisa and Kenny. I miss Kristin and Fishnet and Deep Creek. I miss the shoes I can no longer wear, the pants I’ve grown out of, and the trees that have fallen down. I miss Andrea. I miss West Germany. I miss that hospital in Columbus, Ohio. I miss the comfort of my mother’s womb.
I miss touching Abigail’s face. I miss Jeni’s lips. I miss the stars above Tracey’s house. I miss Ann-Marie’s laugh. I miss Ben’s grin. I miss Vince’s Jim Carrey quotes. I miss Curtis singing country songs in his car. I miss Allen’s farts. I miss Sharon driving “our” truck. I miss Jessica hiking beside me in the woods. I miss Charlie and Kate together.
I miss Lees-McRae College.
I even miss Regent University and it is in the future.
I miss my wife.
I miss my children.
I miss my dead parents, now in heaven.
I miss earth. I miss life.
But I’m here now and I’m thankful.
This side of heaven is simply me missing everything that I won’t have time to miss, when I’m face to face with Jesus.